Do you want to send $100 worth to someone instantly? Pay a higher fee to do so. Don't like it? Compare other rates (banks, middlemen, etc.) and I will see you come crawling back begging and saying sorry.
I tottally agree with you here. Compared to bank fees, even a high transaction btc fee is almost insignificant compared to the transaction value, the reliability of the system, the easy access and procedures (no paperwork, proof of income and other boring stuff from banks).
If we put into the balance all the advantages of using btc, we should be willing to pay a h
igher fee than we pay to the banks. Think about it!