Your 95% "yes" demand (other than being arbitrary and virtually impossible to reach) pretty much guarantees equally bitter, draconian contraposition (the scope of which, I hope, you're starting to appreciate).
Neither is it arbitrary nor 'virtually' impossible to reach. It has nothing to do about my choice but everything to do with consensus in a consensus based protocol. Anything above 95% is acceptable and reachable.
Consensus in a consensus based protocol?
Care to link me to the relevant code/pseudocode?
5% can't stand in the way of 95% for long, not without millennia of history and standing armies at your beck and call.
You've turned into the very despots Bitcoin was meant to make irrelevant.
Then there is no problem with 95%. Also it seems that you have the wrong idea of Bitcoin. It was never about the majority being able to push others around, we have fiat for that.
If you think that the minority (the less than five percent) is entitled to dictate its whims to the majority, it's you whose ideas about Bitcoin are off.