First of all, God isn't a murder. Why not? God owns everything. So, even if He takes life away, He was the One Who gave it in the first place. It is His by right, to do with as He pleases.
So you condone murdering your own children for any reason? How could you claim that to be moral?
How many opportunities does God give? Many. Every time a person thwarts and attempts to thwart the laws that God has set in place, and the person does not immediately die from doing so, God has saved the person for another day, and given him/her some more chances.
I would advise you to read the Exodus from Egypt...
Does God give Pharaoh many chances? NO! You didn't actually read it did you?
According to scripture, Pharaoh was ready to let the Israelites go after Moses asked the first time, but "
God hardened Pharaoh's heart" each time so he could send plague after plague at him... Eventually murdering the firstborn child of every Egyptian citizen, servant and animal
Basically God is punishing the Egyptians for a non-sin... because Pharaoh wanted to let them go, until God stopped him by hardening his heart...
wtf is that about? God sounds like a real asshat in this story too...