We're trying to fight for one of the fundamental ideas of Bitcoin which is decentralization. Big blocks do not help with this, especially not with an already stagnating node count.
so 2mb blocks are not good for decentralization?? .. hmmm blockstream 0.13SW full archival mode effectively 2mb(same thing different packaging)
also you were trying to state on many other threads that not updating was ok and compatible, stating that you want users to be ok with not being full archive mode. is actually a recipe that turns alot of full nodes into compatible blind, pass the parcel nodes. which is actually going to stagnate the FULL node count.
so we agree that 2mb is not a problem (because of your love for segwit which for full nodes is 2mb) we debunked your theory about processing time because any implementation can use the same libsecp256k1.
so your problem seems to be more about if your friends remain in control of the commit keys