Need somebody trustworthy who can take my keys and be able to send me the bitbays to my new wallet, this is frustrating I cant believe Im such a retard and cant figure this problem out for myself
Yes, I guess I know your problem: You have to wait for the blockchain to download.
If the blockchain has alrready downloaded, and you still are not able to send Bitbay, then check you you've got enough balance.
If you've got enough balance, and it still does not work, download the latest Bitbay wallet, because it is possible you mistankenly have the wallet for another cryptocurrency, instead of Bitbay's, there.
