untill LN proves itself.
i think it might be wise to bump the blocklimit just enough to not hurt adoption.
once LN has proven itself, then, sure, be very conservative with future blocklimit incress to make sure max-decentralization is kept.
This tactic makes no sense:"Let's not be conservative because we want adoption (i.e. because of greed), and let's be conservative later once LN is ready.". Segwit will provide adequate transaction capacity for the network at the moment. It should be fine until sometime in 2017. There is no need to bump the block size limit right now.
you spread your mindset and i'll spread mine?? if you really dont want opposing views and discussion on this forum please make it clear that "we" aren't welcome here.
Spreading a healthy mindset is great, what your "friends" are doing is not.