If you are gambling and you lost a lot of money with it, than it is your own fault I think because you started to gamble that much and you know it can be not good to gamble that much.
And the most people are not realizing that and they should know that gambling is made for fun and not to be rich.
Well I realized that and I am not playing that much like you said that I am, I don't want to spend to much in gambling and I can control my urge in betting because I know the consequences in playing it and I know that it is very risky indeed.