I think being emotionless is making people emotionless. Have some imagination to take control of your life and mental states. How can I blame something on someone. Sure there are things we cant change but nobody controls how I see or cope with my external reality. Make the easy, although hard for many, choice of being responsible for your feelings, thoughts, position in life, and every day choices of doing absolutely nothing or something if your an active person. Either way none of it matters but at least be cognizant of your choice in the world and how that choice is in fact a decision an not a factor determined by your environment.