As my family would say, "There are the right type of people, and there aren't." It has nothing to do with being "racist" or "intolerant".
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Some of us aren't pretending.
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Hey, lol, I didn't say I approved of everybody on those hangouts.
I evaluate people mostly on their productivity, not mostly on their personality.
So agreed, that type of attitude in your family is not compatible with me.
Maybe there is some overlap between certain personality traits and productivity in certain jobs. And when that science is clear to me, I apply it.
For me, it is all about results, not the bullshit noise and pretension.
Those who are blinded with their pretension on personality will miss my train as it leaves the station.
Hopefully that sufficiently explains our differences now. I prefer not to lose more time commenting in this thread.
I'm not directly referring to you, but I will say that how people conduct themselves says everything about them.