I got married when I was 18 and my wife was 19. She weighed ~100lb then and had a plain-Jane look, but was good enough for me--at the time. Now, she's over 300lbs and looks creaturish. I've seen two photos of Tom's wife. One looks rather pretty, while the other is slightly not, but not ugly like my ex-wife.
I'll have to agree that the video is in bad taste. OTOH, Josh's poodle is fair game:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qUhLiiRGn3k