I agree with you but that does not change the fact that if not for the agreement reached the noise would be much louder now.
I don't disagree with that, however if you take a look at e.g. r/btc you will see that the people are still very toxic (albeit seems "calmer" than before).
Its also important to acknowledge different perspectives and that both can perspectives can be right. 1 mb is a can kick down the road, but often can kicks are useful.
It is not useful since Segwit will provide similar capacity without the need for any other artificial limitations as found in Gavin's BIP.