If we agree that any design is a matter of taste, then it's ok if you like it.
I just tried politely to say my opinion, as I work with design many years.
My intention was to help you, not to gratify or to soothe.
And even now after you speak ironically, you can PM me and I will help you for free or will provide some free graphics if need.
Thats a kind offer to provide some free graphics if needed.
What would you suggest?
I could suggest some banners, buttons, background images, web UI elements, even maybe fonts (web adapted). You should decide what do you want exactly to change, how much work and time you can offer to redesign. I think, that at first you only need to change a few elements only and your site could look absolutely different. Also you should invest a bit in to your logo, because it's your personality, your authenticity and originality. Unless you're not planning to run your website in a long term.