You can't handle the fact that Dash is more successful than your coin of choice.
Reddit SubscribersBTC: 177838
DOGE: 77479
LTC: 21976
ETH: 13741
XMR: 3427
DASH: 1799
Monero bigger than Dash by a factor of
1.9Reddit Users OnlineBTC: 380
ETH: 122
DOGE: 41
LTC: 14
XMR: 12
DASH: 8
Monero bigger than Dash by a factor of
1.5Average New Posts (an hour)BTC: 4.08
ETH: 3.25
DOGE: 0.8
XMR: 0.5
LTC: 0.4
DASH 0.3
Monero bigger than Dash by a factor of
1.6666Average New Comments (an hour)BTC: 138
ETH: 45.2
DOGE: 20.4
LTC: 7.96
XMR: 7.00
DASH: 2.71
Monero bigger than Dash by a factor of
2.58#IRC USAGE - Average Users OnlineBTC: 1106
ETH: 368
DOGE: 228
LTC: 175
XMR: 153
DASH: 76
Monero bigger than Dash by a factor of
2.01Github ContributorsBTC: 337
DOGE: 67
XMR: 44
DASH: 29
LTC: 19
ETH: 18
Monero bigger than Dash by a factor of
1.5172You could even throw in accumulative forum posts from all three forums (Dash, Monero BCT) and in total the average size of Monero's community is 1.86 times bigger than that of Dash. It's also worth mentioning that Dash finished last in all but one of these key metrics.
The only thing Dash has got going that's bigger than Monero is market-cap, and conveniently, given the multi-million dollar riches of its lead developer is a very easy thing to arrange.
I'm also still yet to find one credible cryptography expert to praise Dash.
So I don't quite know how you're measuring success, other than a fistful of draconian deceptions, a Jabba-the-Hutt style instamine, a deeply flawed anonymity system without a credible userbase.
That's a pretty impressive list. And I agree that Dash's community involvement is a weak point in the project, and it's an issue I'm tackling head on through the Dash Nation campaign and website in development. I have a challenge to generate more community passion and involvement in Dash, and the Monero community is one of a few that I am currently studying.