try shift payments you only need a coinbase wallet and the debit card only costs $10. just head on over there to find out extra information but if you finally decide to make a change then go for xapo and all the others posted above.
I actually took the persons advice on the cryptopay card. I can process debit card to my account, so I just load the virtual card with bitcoin and process my own card

Thanks to the person that told me about cryptopay. Its a great help.