6. Self-awareness. Let's all savor the irony of ETC setting out to create a controversial hard fork immediately after rejecting ETH for that exact reason.

Keeping Dagger and removing the diff bomb isn't controversial. It only becomes controversial if all that scope creep is brought in.
The scope creep is already here; we're soaking in it!

It may be an intrinsic entailment, as removing the diff bomb effectively creates an eternal PoW coin, which is equivalent to a codebase+protocol divergence bomb when ETH goes PoS.
And (especially) for fans of PoS, that is controversial. (Let's note many PoS supporters think PoW causes climate change and wastes energy, so they are ideologically bound to that preference with very tight couplings.)
But I take your point. We can do the minimum now, and put off the controversial until an issue is forced, thus providing clarity and defanging controversy.