I have not faced this problem. I would do the following. Search for all NEM-related files on your machine and delete them. Afterwards, install NEM again from scratch. Then it should usually work. Which WinOS do you use?
cant log in into my xem wallet, the message says localhost 8989, and ncc is not runing, anyone can help?
I think, I had the same problem!
You have to delete the file named 'accounts_cache_mainnet.json' and start NEM again.
I had this problem a serveral time, don't know why

You will find the file here: C:/Users/'youraccount'/nem/