Sorry for late reply. I couldn't reply lately due to personal problem.
I don't know your id, so I can't investigate what situation you are in.
But normally, the delay comes from withdrawal, not exchanges.
Exchange happens as soon as coin is arrived at exchange site. I'm sure that your coins were already exchanged at that time.
Withdrawal is only done when some amount is piled up to reduce withdrawal fee. I think you understand what it means.
Maybe if you want to control on your own, just input your exchange site's wallet address and make it auto payout and exchange it manually.
Auto exchange is helpful feature from pool but not mandatory thing.
Hello! thanks for answer, no worries about the delay

my username is the same as here, induktor
I have 4 ETH, they are very slowly being exchanged but almost all the time there are 4 ETH there (since I am mining more (I put a new rig yesterday to increase MH)
I normally won't matter me much but i am in the need for cash hehe

indeed withdrawal fee is a BIG issue for me, and in something as big as this pool, geez!
let's see if we can fix this first, if not, i´ll do that but until recently was working perfectly, just the last 3 or 4 days started to slowly queueing ETH and not being entirely cleared, or cashed

thanks
Ethereum currency is disabled in Bittrex currently.
Don't know why but it says it's under maintanence. I'll force withdrawal from other exchanges for faster processing but bittrex is making things stuck still.
I will do my best.
Thanks.