Bitcoin has shown they will help exchanges steal money.
Wrong. Bitcoin is showing that it stands behind the values that it was created for.
Eth-Etc has shown they will make an effort to prevent a major theft or exploit.
They have demonstrated an unhealthy way of forking for the sake of a bailout. The "code is law" and whatnot was an outright lie.
Bitcoin does not scale it does 300,000 transactions per day on average max is just under 700,000.
This is incorrect as well. Segwit will up the TPS to about ~180% on average and more on-chain improvements are expected in the future.