buddhism is more of a practice than religion. unconditional love and reverence to all beings, it does not matter how you identify yourself. buddhist mantras use vibrational energy to heal and transmute unhealthy emotions and patterns. buddhism is about raising the vibration of yourself and those around you
you dont need to identify as a buddhist to practice buddhism, it is the essence of the loving natural man, which we all are within
Modern Buddhism is different from what you have written here. It is not possible to practice "unconditional love and reverence to all beings" all the time, as others can take advantage out of it. Buddhism has evolved, just like Christianity and Hinduism. Radical groups such as the 969 movement are a result of this evolution.