This whole situation appears to be a complete clusterfuck. Both sides are accusing the other of bad faith (and much worse).

First of all, I absolutely do not condone someone telling someone else that they "should kill himself", I do not think there is any good reason to make this kind of comment. This is something that I would consider when considering doing business with someone. With this being said, everyone does make mistakes, and everyone gets frustrated, if this truly is an isolated incident, no personal information gets released absent some kind of trade dispute, and OgNasty apologizes, then I think everyone can get past this incident.

The fact that Lutpin was told something very inappropriate does not absolve him from the kind of business practices he is alleged to have engaged in doing. I have long been suspicious of Lutpin, have looked into him, but have never come across an accusation of this kind of business activity -- this is not to say that these allegations are untrue, or unfounded.