Without possibly twisting words, you said that you would remove Mitchell (and by extension RHavar) from the trust network if he did not remove his positive trust on TwitchySeal. This is trying to get your agenda through force or threats;
quite literally the definition of extortion.
I disagree. I gave him the courtesy of contacting him and explaining why before I removed him from my trust network. I didn't threaten him and in fact made a point to say, "No hard feelings against you either way." That is called professional courtesy.
The thing I did wrong was to suggest Lutpin should kill himself. A sin I have asked forgiveness for. Just because I was harassed for 12 days straight, didn't give me the right to suggest suicide.