There should be a tutorial on the website for Mist wallet under the tutorial link. Not the Rico page but the actual website.
Thanks. I went there and am thoroughly confused.
I added a "Custom token" an "Xaurum ERC20 Proxy" and a "Xaurum Advanced Contract" and I still have no idea how to move my Xaurum to my wallet

FML
Probably another dumb question, do I just use the same ether address for the xaurum that I would use for say, my ethercoin?
Do back read to several pages to 25 perhaps you'll see the tutorials about it. I've seen it before becuase i did follow the tut to send my xaur to c-cex and then i sent back some of it to myethwallet and then to the mist in the harddrive.