if you want Muslims to be more like the citizens of the countries they inhabit, stop focusing so much on petty differences between them and the rest of us, such as how many Mohamed's there are in Britain and instead talk about the accomplishments of the children of immigrant families in the UK and try and encourage them to be the best UK citizens they can be.
When a group of people openly states they want us dead for not following their religion or living a certain lifestyle they don't approve of that's not a 'petty' difference, stop trying to brush aside the fact that a significant chunk of them are outright fanatics, I am actually growing to hate people like you more than any religious person because you're the reason they gain so much influence and can get away with so much violence.