I think that you should save your money, cutting your spendings by only buying what you need. I think that's a better way to manage your own money.
This is the simplest way to save money. Just stop spending so much and start saving your money by making a budget, not buying frivolous things, and manage your own money and don't pay a financial manager to do anything for you un;ess you have the extra money for all of that.
Yes, don't buy something useless using your money. Especially men are good for controling himself for not buying something than women. Save money is better and also get interest if you manage your money at bank.