Agreed, there are plenty of trusted sites sites around, it's better to avoid new/unheard of sites at least until they've proven that they're trustworthy and reliable. If you want to use your debit/credit card go with Circle, they're hands down the best if you're using cards. For PayPal, LocalBitcoins is probably the best choice although it is recommended that you find trusted traders with plenty of positive feedbacks/trades, especially when buying with PP. Personally I only buy from sellers with +1000 trades and 100% positive feedback.