hi
what are you doing while your are waiting for a confirmation of a transaction.
i am reading here and posting some stuff.
Why do your need to wait for a comfirmation? The money isnt going anywhere. It's not like a bank that you have to phone them to cancel the transaction.
A bitcoin transaction is not final until it has 1-3 confirmations, so just do the transaction and go do your thing, the money isnt going anywhere.