So you left your family and your home?
How can you walk away from your family (wife and children) and your home (castle)?
No. I fled the family and my country (Finland). My home (castle) is in Estonia.
Almost always your family has your best interests in mind. If they see things vastly different than you and you are firm in your belief that you are right the least you could do is discuss this will some close friends to see where the disconnect is.