Are you checking your email? A confirmation goes there. And if I remember rightly it asks you to add a message to XEM transactions.
nah, did not get any mail. i got the "confirm transaction" mail from polo, thats about it. how come there is no newbie explanation for stuff like this? im def not the smartest person but I installed some wallets so far and they all have been easier to understand. if nem wants people to use their wallet, how come documentation is so poor? just m2c. but thanks for the help everybody!
So, you did click that confirmation link from that mail?
And is your account starting with letter N (N=mainnet, T=testnet)