thats great.. so this is my ip say for example.. 47.146.148.125 so then this is correct to add in your conf file??
addnode=47.146.148.125:4242
To be a node you need to open the port #4242 in your router/firewall.
One of the simplest methods to open the port is to use a
uTorrent: go to "Preferences" >> "Connection", opposite the "Port used for incoming connections" put 4242 and click on "Ok".
To check is your port opened or closed:
http://www.yougetsignal.com/tools/open-ports/ ,
http://ping.eu/port-chk/.
If this method is not working for you but you want to open the port for incoming connections, send me in PM your router model and firewall name and I will try to help you.