Got the payouts, but small fees again are taking forever to confirm, if they even ever do.

Why don't you just let the fees be paid by the player, subtracted from the payout? Then you wouldn't even have to worry about it, and the fees sent with payouts could be generous, so that I wouldn't need to wait 14 hours to be able to use my coins again. This is not cool, I can't play there anymore if payouts take so long to complete. I'm sure many feel the same way.