I now there there is already at least one bitcoin escrow website but if I was to setup a new one what would you what it to have so that you might use it and trust it ? is there any escrow on here that would like to work with me on this service if so pm me
I think you're getting into a very hard market. It would take an enormous amount of trust to start using such an external website. Personally, i would only consider trusting an external site if it was either owned or operated by a long-term, extremely trusted bitcointalk member, or if a long-term, extremely trusted bitcointalk member kept enough collateral from you in order to repay everybody in case you ran with the escrowed funds.