if I may be honest I always spend all my salary to buy a certain item I like, yeah I'm very hard to control my desire to buy something, there is the suggestion that I was not too extravagant?
In the past this habit was just a wasting of my money for me and I preferred to save and invest in the future but now I realized that spending our money on our life is also beneficial and worthful to spend it on our family members as no one know about the future that will it be with us or not.