Some members already give good website, but i think those links also useful for you :
http://spendbitcoins.com/places/ : website which shows physical merchants/business which accept bitcoin with maps.
https://99bitcoins.com/who-accepts-bitcoins-payment-companies-stores-take-bitcoins/ : contains lots of information, but not indexed well so use Ctrl+F to find what you need.
sites on this directory are they trust and still paying
I'm not the owner of that site, so haven't checked all of them but from a quick glance, those listed seem to be legit ones. You could always double check the sites at
http://www.badbitcoin.org/That's website which list every scam bitcoin business/services/investment, not really what OP needs.