NO, we are all different people. I will not be held down on who I really am because some people don't like the way I conduct myself.
Society is often telling us 'be true to ourselves', 'be real', 'you are special' and of course 'don't try to please anyone but yourself'.
This of course is all hogwash.
The reason we have traditions, manners, customs, rules, government, police, and prisons is so that we don't simply go around pleasing ourselves all the time. We are to try and be better people. It is ok for eight-year-olds to be children. It is not ok for 28 year olds to act like children.
The ARK team has given you a job: public relations. Your job is not a playground for self-expression and self-fulfillment. Wouldn't you agree?