Gambling is a game of odds so there is no safe way. It also depends on luck.
There is no safe way to guarantee a win but there is a method (safe way) to minimize the lost. I agree that gambling is a game of chance but the decision on how he approach is still on the player. Player may have no control over the result but he has control on his bet

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If any player know how to control on his emotion than he can play with better approach towards particular game, so that I also agreed with you so hard and it's impossible to make profit just for our desire, gambling will remain risky always.