Listen up kids.
Throwing tantrums and pointing fingers and general acts of shitshowing never make for successful business. It also makes you look like someone who's scam has been revealed.
Successful traders are patient, polite and generally don't cry in public.
Tell you what.
If you pay me $75 in paypal...I will pay a trusted escrow to hold the $75 btc for the 1 year charge-back period and then release it to you if no charge-back has occurred. I will give positive trust at the end of the 1 year period.
Fair enough? That way nobody gets screwed.