actually all this process is nothing but just a scam and making the forum worst and encouraging spamming.. you are doing scammy thing yourself by trading bitcointalk account which is totally an unexpected thing. and you expect that users of your field will be honest with you?
My thoughts aswell, one scammer is angry that the other one is not going to get ripped off without payment.
Oh, if we just could make deals and or ridicule without all the bad mouthing, nasty insults and scams, right?