I see that we are not going to easily achieve this consensus and what should we do? What can you suggest?
Why not look at real life, instead of just what 1 person says?
Bitcoin has had dozens of soft-forks, some of which took longer to activate. That's what's happened in the past soft-forks, all programmed with 95% acceptance thresholds. What makes you think this fork will be different?
Because so far I don't see how are we going to overcome BU mining hash power if we dont lower treshold