localbitcoins is escrow, I haven't used forum escrow before, will  try to learn. This guy has bad temper, my mistake to deal with him here.
OK folks, don't deal with me, if you don't want to trade on paxful or localbitcoins. Also I'm open to forum escrow if I learn enough of it.

he asked me to send him first or contact another forum member for escrow, then I said he can send me first and then I send him dollar. If you want to say this is "newbie forcing me to send first", I am astonished.