If the coins are still in your wallet then what is your pain here? you paid a fee of 0.00000226 for a 225 bytes transaction? it will never get confirmed.
Try spending with at least 0.00015 for a 30 minutes confirm time.
wel if i send it again, and the first one goes true i paid 2 times ....
I don't knoe if this is possible on bitcoin core, try to spend the inputs or change if there is any with a much higher fee, i read somewhere about 'child pays for parent' thing and this might help you