any others have problem with the wallet not connecting to the network?
i am , did you solved ?? , cause my wallet says 0 active connections

i fixed it, best you can do is make an conf file.
and add the nodes

No idea how to do that
I presume you are on Windows.
1. Change directory to your roaming folder (c:\users\yourusername\appdata\roaming\Alexandrite)
2. Create a file in Notepad called Alexandrite.conf and save it in this folder
3. Put the info below in the Alexandrite.conf file
4. Start the wallet
rpcuser=user
rpcpassword=choose_a_password_and_put_it_here
rpcallowip = 127.0.0.1
server = 1
daemon = 1
listen = 1
addnode=192.227.251.234
addnode=91.134.120.210
addnode=87.98.142.204
addnode=5.9.165.252
addnode=194.135.85.41
addnode=176.8.54.13
addnode=41.135.115.19
addnode=81.65.9.22
addnode=88.15.4.10
addnode=45.76.168.235