For such high transaction you should pay at least 0.004btc for 1 btc and then you should get your transaction should get confirmed soon. and now a days sending small transaction is a headache for us.
Why so much? he's not gonna watch porn but sends a few coins, to make sure his unconfirmed one gets a confirm just sending 10 satoshis per byte more than the recommended fees is like a replace with higher fee but doesn't replace only includes the parent(unconfirmed 0.5) into the next block that the whole 3 bitcoins are included.