I like being proven right
This, right here, is the very core of your problem.
Being right all the time just reaffirms bias. Eventually you start looking for it even when it isn't there. Personally, I like to be proven wrong. That's my end goal in any discussion, because being wrong about something is an opportunity to learn and grow and do better next time, instead of repeating the same old tired mistakes.
You will never be more than you are as long as you cling to the need and desire to be Right all the time.