everyone should do what they feel is best for the network, and there is no better way of participating in the debate , then what you describe.
altho i would call on all the BU supporters to run BU nodes.
and all the other node users to support other nodes
but in short dont read the reddit sales pitches. scrutinise things independently. and dont think about short term gains of going for X because it will cause double coins. as thats just temporary drama that ends 10 minutes after you spent them coins.
think about the long term ACTUAL real benefit that can actually be achieved. without reliance on dev handouts every few months