Doing a home made ASIC is not a trivial.
Not just not trivial, totally impossible. You can
design an ASIC at home, but to produce it you need a multi billion dollar factory. If you bring enough dollars, and buy enough units, the companies owning those factories will happily produce them for you. That's what's happening with Avalon and BFL.
Then I can't make a ASIC only buying some FPGAs and some wires...

Well, let's buy some ASICs as a co-op, when we have enough money I'll call Foxconn to assembly in line production (and sell it only a bit cheaper than AVALON)