Doesn't it make sense? It sucks, but sadly it's a reality.
When you get a ticket for a concert do you get better seats for a lower price? No.
That's just the way things work.
Anyway - fees aren't really that big so no need to get upset about things. Not that I like to pay fees as well...
Bitcoin is great but we are no immune to the realities of the world, you get what you paid for, so if you want faster confirmation times then you need to pay extra and if you dont want to pay or you cant then we have no other option but to wait.