You must be one of the few people who does this. Where I live, for example, there are not many possibilities for doing this.
If you are having such problems, I suggest you use your credit card, until things get right on Bitcoin side. Or you can opt for a Bitcoin debit card, but the fees will make things more difficult.
It is unacceptable for me to buy coffee for bitcoin. It seems to me that soon I can regret such a purchase. Because this is a non-rational waste of resources. Similarly, I will never buy any other everyday goods for bitcoins
Yeah, right? Because why do we need to spend bitcoin to buy a coffee if we can use fiat, is this a way to shout out to the world that we have bitcoins and others don't have? Well, we don't have to be this way, we should be low key as always, be humble, and not use bitcoin on everything where we want to, use it where you think it is worth to be use.
And I would rather spend my fiat just to buy a lot of coffee and save my bitcoin to have profits in the long run.