@OP what's the total fee that you paid?
From what you've said, I think its best for you to wait 72 hours and allow the transaction to disappear, the coins will go back into your wallet and then you can just resend it with a better fee. Doing this manually is too troublesome
I can't afford that. I need to be confirmed even if it is only 60 bucks. I will pay up to 20-25$ if some one can mine it, plus tip for some one who will find me that guy