If a person is really addicted to gambling, it is really hard to quit. Yes, you're  right when you say, if not ready to lose the money, don't  even try or attempt to gamble.  Gambling is a dangerous addictions because of the related risk of suicide. Find help now and make a plan to begin quitting. Take it one day, or hour, at a time and keep in mind how great you will feel when you have come clean and stopped gambling with your life.