I added every single fallback node with the terminal command.
Took a few minutes, but my connections gradually went up to 14!
Unfortunately, I still don't have the transaction in BitCoin, and its been a while since  it used the terminal thing, and almost 2 hours since I sent the coins to myself.
I thought this BitCoin business was supposed to be almost instant?

I also checked the obvious things already like making sure I pasted my address into the website correctly, and that the withdrawal was listed on the BitMarket site.